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The first blow job I ever gave (after methodically groping my way past all the bases) was an act of faith. After finally figuring out how to manually manage my boyfriend´s strange vestigial organ-how to brandish, manipulate and handle his distended, tumescent pink love shaft-I now had the daunting task of having to figure out how to manage it orally. Lick? Suck? Use your hands? If only the how-to books that exist today existed back then.

“Put both hands into the L position around the base of the shaft,” says “Sex Tips for Straight Women From a Gay cum swallowers Man.” “Lick the whole tip and then use your tongue to lick up and down the sides. Covering your teeth with your lips, and keeping your mouth taut, glide the blowjobs inside and lick the sensitive spot underneath with both the tip and flat part of your tongue . proceed down the shaft as far as you can go in one fell swoop.” And on it goes. It includes tips on curiosities like dick whipping, hummers and tinglers, plus advice on how to breathe. (Men may fear the cavernous tunnel that leads to the primordial soup of the womb, but cum swallowers women risk death by gagging.)

This reminds me of another study you cite in your book. A 1993 French report called the “Rapport Spira-Bajos” indicated that the majority of women who perform fellatio are educated women with a certain level of social status. It seemed to reveal a sort of social hierarchy around fellatio.

Yes, I think that´s uncontestable. Women who have participated in certain social movements-women´s liberation, the right to abortion, the pill, etc.-are the most inclined to explore their sexuality and hence have an impact on sexual practices on some level. And these women are usually cum swallowers more educated,