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Just why has oral sex become less transgressive to the younger generation? Certainly, it has to do with the AIDS epidemic and the popularization of terms like “bodily fluids.” After short-lived hand-wringing about what to call the substance that stained Lewinsky´s blue Gap dress, the media brought the word “cum” out of the closet and injected it into the daily news. Now the public appearance of cum-once a symbolic violation of society´s taboos about dirt, order and hygiene-has become little more than a cinematic sight gag: hair gel in ´“Theres Something About Mary” and a doggie treat in cum swapping “Happiness.” Our recent obsession with exposure and propriety violations, our seemingly relentless “tabloid mentality” cannot help but desensitize us to what was once subversive.

There´s such an enormous amount of literature written by and about Freud-and it is so easy to fall prey to certain platitudes-that I´ve been careful here. Freud obviously spent a great deal of energy describing our oral, anal and genital stages, but it would be a gross simplification to say that people who smoke a lot or are heavily into oral sex are stuck in the oral stage. Freud doesn´t speak directly much about cum swapping it. He evokes it, but he passes quickly over the subject. Of course he heard about fellatio in the course of treating patients, but he never drew a specific theory as it relates to the oral stage in our development. It´s somewhat of a paradox. I´m not a psychoanalyst, so I don´t want to make any sweeping commentary here.

There has been some talk about teens in America having oral sex at increasingly younger ages and with increasing casualness. This seems very much the opposite of how it´s perceived in France, where fellatio is considered more intimate than lovemaking. cum swapping To what do