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Undoubtedly, a number of young women engage in fellatio rather than intercourse in order to maintain “technical virginity” or in the mistaken belief that they are practicing safe sex. But for them, oral sex may also be emotionally safer sex-it is a way of performing a sexlike act without having to take off one´s clothes and thereby reveal one´s imperfect self. That is far from the whole story, however. Many deliberately embrace “bad girl” sexuality-call it grrrl power-taking pride in their erotic doings and bragging about them to their friends-much as Monica Lewinsky did. And unlike their fathers, the cumshot young men I see today do not necessarily disrespect them for it. While virtually all my 40ish patients of either sex think Lewinsky was either a mixed-up or conniving fool, a number of those in their 20s admire her pluck. Indeed, at one point, she became a poster girl for overweight young women. Articles about how to perform oral sex have proliferated in magazines targeted to Gen X females, replete with information about the caloric content of cum, thereby addressing two sources of young adult female anxiety-sexual adequacy and body image-in one fell swoop.

“You try it!” Samantha challenges cumshot her bewildered beau (Adam) when he bellows that she´s acting like a squeamish princess. “If you´re fine with it, I´ll be fine with it.” Adam initially resists sampling his spooge (“It´s gay!” he whines) , but eventually he chokes down his rancid cum, with an anguished expression on his defeated visage. Although he reports that he´s “fine with it,” we know that he´s lying.

I lied too, 25 years ago, when I gobbled through the same horrible gastronomic gantlet. My lover Robyn perceived my bluff; she forced me to admit that I loathed the salty, viscous wad. Ever since cumshot then, my glee